Thank you Christime, for your comment. I have been giving them space, email or phone and leave a message once a week, getting no replies. My daughter in law is one of these young women that believes its all about her family, which started shortly after they got married. Holidays and their time off has been all about her family, I am lucky to get a crumb. I believe she wears the pants in this family, and is getting her way by pulling my son completely away from me after this tragedy. My son is typical male, and just doesn't want any conflict. This whole situation is completely breaking my heart. All I want is peace and harmony in my family. I am very afraid that I have lost my son to this situation.