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By October 20, 2015 - 4:00pm

I devoted, 16 years to a man that never loved me like I loved him. I've given him 4 amazing children. I've struggled,I've lost a lot, I've given. I loved him unconditional, through all his addictions many broken promises. Stealing from my children, myself, my family. Despite it all, I stayed loyal. I've done jail visits, rehab visits...I prayed, had sleepless nights. So now on this 3,4, 5 time on he's healed. I was cautious, and because of this, he found someone else. I don't even know were to begin my Heartbreak and pain. Please someone help me!!!

By HERWriter Guide October 20, 2015 - 4:17pm

Hi AwaysBeenAlone


Stop thinking about the 16 years your wasted right now.  It's better you get out now that waste 17 years.  You have let this man abuse you and your children because somewhere down the line, you learned that you didn't deserve more.  He found someone else because why not?. That's really hard to accept but it's true. 

Your heart is broken now and I can believe it.  Something never clicked with you that this relationship was going nowhere.  But now you know.  Give yourself time to heal but then move on - get your kids and yourself on a healing program.  Get family counseling and do NOT let this man back in. His cheating is a gift to you.  You would not leave so he did - it's better than remaining as you are.  You have let you and your children down by allowing this.  Stay strong and move on.  No excuses as to why you can't! You can do this! 



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