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By December 17, 2015 - 10:34pm

Hello I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and have a 3 year old daughter I worried as he doesn't have a very high sex drive we don't have a lot of sex like we used to I would like it move I've asked him and he says it's not all about sex and he says he loves me loads but it still doesn't stop me thinking that maybe he doesn't find me attractive anyone but he says he does he has never been a cuddley boyfriend . but other than that we get on great. I'm 25 and he's 26 I feel like sex is important but he doesn't even try it on with me and I feel embarrassed asking for sex as feel like it should come naturally help me is it normal I always thought it was other way round

By HERWriter Guide December 18, 2015 - 5:47am

Hi samantha89jones

It sounds like your boyfriend is either not attracted to you the way he used to be or something is going on in his life that's he's not telling you. His words and his actions do not match. Of course sex is not everything in a relationship and I don't think you think it is - you are just looking for it to be a part of your life. 

If he's not initiating it at all then he may be feeling depressed. Is he on any medication that could cause some kind of erectile dysfunction?  If none of the above is possible then talk to him more.  Since you get on really well, ask him what you can do to help this along.



December 18, 2015 - 5:47am

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