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help me please i need advise

By October 22, 2010 - 4:28pm

Can you get pregnant without full penetration?
I was with my boyfriend and we were fooling around, he didnt penetrate me, he just rubbed his genitals with mine, whenever i felt he was getting tooo low (close to my vagina opening) i would push away, and
first he said the he was going to come but waited a while more, then he said i cant hold it and a bunch of clear fluid came out (pre cum) then he kept masturbating on his own, and he came/ ejaculated

he came in my breast, no where near my vagina, and he didnt touch me w/ his fingers later or nothing like that, but he masturbated me with my clothes on after that, but he didnt touch it directly

I saw him come/ejaculate but he didnt come anywhere near me, I am freaking out because I dont know if its possible for him to come more than once??? can i be pregnant??

My period is due on the first of November, this happened (oct 14 ), He told me that was the only ejaculation he had, and when he came it was like 6 in a row, it was quite alot,

that was the first time any penis has been close to my vagina, and thats why I am scared and asking all of these questions because Im not sure, of these things,

i injected a birth control medication on the 18th of this month, i dont know if it will help, its from mexico and its called Perlutal

By HERWriter Guide November 2, 2010 - 6:55pm

Of course not Ashley, just like pregnancy does not happen all the time. We advise our readers based on their questions and their own particular situations. Nothing is set in stone, so we educated all our readers who have questions on the various outcomes of behaviors and actions.


November 2, 2010 - 6:55pm
By November 2, 2010 - 6:51pm

but that doesn't happen all the time.

November 2, 2010 - 6:51pm
By HERWriter Guide November 2, 2010 - 6:50pm

Thanks for your opinion Ashley, however when it comes to the seriousness of unprotected sexual activity, we'd like to deal with medical and biological facts.

As I stated already, pre-ejaculatory fluid can contain sperm that can enter the vagina when the penis is placed near the vaginal area. Any kind of genital to genital contact should be protected if a person wants to avoid pregnancy. There may not be a need for penetration nor full ejaculation to cause pregnancy.


November 2, 2010 - 6:50pm
By November 2, 2010 - 4:16pm

She said he ejaculated nowhere near her so I think it can't be possible. That's just my opinion. And yes, condom is the best prevention,

November 2, 2010 - 4:16pm
By HERWriter Guide November 2, 2010 - 7:05am

Hi bell88

Pregnancy IS in fact a possibility. With all due respect to Ashely, she is giving incorrect information.

Anytime you have genital to genital contact, even if it is not penetrative, a woman can absolutely get pregnant. The release of pre-ejaculatory fluid often contains sperm (especially when having sex for the first time that day/night) and these sperm can enter the vagina and impregnate a woman. This is not a common occurrence but can and does happen.

In future, always use a condom when getting that close to having sex.

With regard to six ejaculations in a row - that's actually not possible if he says it all happened directly in a row. Men have what's known as a "refractory period" after ejaculation, which prohibits another erection for a period of time - usually at least 10-15 minutes for younger men, up to a day for older men (70+) and on average, about a half an hour for all men.

Therefore he would have to be sexually active for at LEAST 90 mins to two hours in order to this to actually happen and even then, it's not very likely.

I hope this information helps you and anytime you have questions, please let us know.

Again, be careful with the kind of unprotected sexual activity you are having. Genital to genital contact without penetration can cause pregnancy.


November 2, 2010 - 7:05am
By October 30, 2010 - 5:39am

I don't think you can be pregnant. Unless there is penetration or the semen was released inside your vagina, you won't get pregnant. And yes, with proper stimulation, guys can come more than once. But I really don't think it is possible to do 6 in a row-- i don't want to judge but he might be lying. Anyway, honey I wouldn't advise injecting any birth control medications not unless you consulted a doctor. there are certain contraindications for those type of medications and i think you should at least know what you're dealing with. So, better seek advice from an expert. And again, NO. You can't be pregnant.

October 30, 2010 - 5:39am

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