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How to tell if my boyfriend is cheating?

By March 21, 2014 - 6:46pm

I don't know if my boyfriend is cheating on me or not. Maybe i'm just being paranoid. He works all day, sometimes until late at night. When I do get to spend time with him he is constantly texting someone. He won't leave his phone anywhere near me, even when he runs into the gas station. I've confronted him about the texting during our alone time, and he says that it's one of his male friends. I want to trust him, but I just don't know. Recently I learned that he was in contact with his ex-girlfriend whom he had a relationship of 5 years with. Do you think I should be worried? I love this guy and want to be with him for a long time. Maybe I just need to get past this jealousy/paranoid thing?

By October 16, 2014 - 5:34am

I get you,I've also been with a guy who meant a lot to me but he cheated on me. So I'll tell you to do the same thing that I did.

I guess you should ask him to give you his cell phone. If he's really been texting his male friend then he won't have any problem showing you his cell phone. But if he has been lying to you then he'll hesitate and probably get angry bringing up the trust issue.

That's your clue. You need to ask him calmly about his ex. 5 yrs is a long duration, so any girl would get insecure about it. Just talk to him about it and confront him until you get to a conclusion. Trust me that's the only way.

I hope it works out for you. And just remember, whatever happens, it happens for good :)

October 16, 2014 - 5:34am

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