July 9, 2012 - 4:53pm
Let me start by saying I do have a life and I don't let these problems consume me....normally. But this has become far too exhausting and I need help! My bf and I have been together for about 4 yrs. As all relationships do, ours started out with an amazing sex life we were always horny and always ready to get it on. FFW to now, I'm lucky if he touches me. I am a very sexual person, I always have been, I'm open to new things. He is not lovey dovey, he does not touch me or look at me with passion or lust. I don't feel sexy, or attractive bc, let's face it, if your own bf isn't attracted to you, who the hell is? I have always been a confident person but I have let this drag me down. This "we don't have condoms... Shucks" bull is gettin old. If he really wanted too have sex, he would go buy some. Ive tried to talk to him
About it but he doesnt really have a lot to say about it. Its gotten to the point where I am doubting my feelings towards him. He is really a very good man. A hard worker, kind to people, good on paper. It's getting difficult to behave and not go looking for what I need. HELP ME!!!