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By December 21, 2011 - 1:19pm

I am a virgin. I have a boyfriend and we participated in outercourse. He had on tighty whities and his pajamas pants and I had on two pairs of pajamas pants and underwear. He did arrive, as I like to call it, in his undies his pants were wet and my pants were wet too. My undies were a little wet but I'm yet that was from me. Is there any way that his sperm could go through his undies, his pajamas, two pairs of my pajama pants, through my undies and I could have gotten pregnant. I'm new to this page and I'm a bit shy about asking this but I wanted to ask a professional woman

By HERWriter Guide May 21, 2012 - 10:45am

You're correct Feather, although that was not the readers question.

Condoms and other forms of birth control protect against pregnancy but that was not the answer to the question. We need to correct information given like " Sperm can swim, none of your clothing will protect you". I corrected this information, based on the particular question asked. Our reader was not using clothing as birth control.



May 21, 2012 - 10:45am
By May 21, 2012 - 10:29am

Bottom line, condoms are the best protection against pregnancy, not layers of clothing! Cloth is permeable, condoms are not.

May 21, 2012 - 10:29am
By HERWriter Guide May 21, 2012 - 9:09am

Hi Feather

Your information is incorrect. Sperm can swim - that's how they move. However, they cannot swim through 5 layers of clothing and then up into a vagina to cause pregnancy.



May 21, 2012 - 9:09am
By May 19, 2012 - 7:09am

Sperm can swim, none of your clothing will protect you, if he is not wearing a condom. Please protect yourself, asking him to wear a condom, even if there is no penetration is something you can do. If he refuses, ask him why

May 19, 2012 - 7:09am
By HERWriter Guide December 26, 2011 - 10:06am

Hi Taylor1

I believe you were helped on this question on the main forums. Please stick to one post per question so that we have time to help all our readers.



December 26, 2011 - 10:06am

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