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By April 4, 2011 - 8:23pm

each time my boyfriend talks abot his friends havin sex wit der girlfriends.i told him no sex till after marriage.whats d possibility of him keeping 2 that or better still getin married 2 me.or is he havig sex with some other girl

By HERWriter Guide April 7, 2011 - 3:41pm

Hi timma

Thanks for your post and welcome!

We would have no idea if your boyfriend is having sex with other women. You may not know either but if you suspect he is, then you need to investigate this further.

Some people want to wait for marriage until having sex and this is perfectly fine! If the other person isn't on board with this, however, then problems can occur. This is a situation where there isn't much compromise: you are either going to have sex before marriage or you are not. If this is very important to you, then stick to your principles. My advice is do not have sex with him in order to stop him from having sex with other women. If he is the kind of man who will cheat on you if you want to wait till marriage, then he's probably the kind of man who will cheat on you anyway.

Whether to wait or not until marriage is a pretty big thing for couples so both of you need to be on the same page. Getting married is about a couple dedicating their lives to each other - not only about getting to have sex.

Do you really want to get married to HIM or do you just want to get married? How much pressure is he putting on you to have sex and do you think this issue is something that could make or break you as a couple?


April 7, 2011 - 3:41pm

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