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Can I be pregnant or am I just having problems with my menstrual cycle?

By February 9, 2014 - 8:26am

Okay I'm 17 years old and I've had my period twice in the same month. I had my period then after I finished my period a week later i ended up having sex for the first time ever and it hurt really bad and I could feel him in my stomach but it hurt so much that he didn't stay in me for long he didn't even cum and he had a condom on. But I ended up giving him a BJ and he cummed after . I highly doubt any of the cum got on me , I'm not sure . Anyways the day after I've noticed I had tiny purple marks and bruises on my thighs and my head hurting bad and having seriously bad adornamial pains . I then went to the doctor and she told me I lost 6 pounds in this past month and nothing was wrong with my blood . I didn't tell her I had sex though but I took a pregnancy test two days after I had intercourse and it came out negative . But the next day I started bleeding heavily with clots for 5-6 days and now I'm scared cause I don't know what's wrong with me

By HERWriter Guide March 5, 2014 - 12:11pm

Hi again

You'd have to have a test at the doctor's office to rule out an infection but condoms can help; it's good that you used one. 

It sounds like your period is on it's way. If you were pregnant, a test taken now will be accurate but I think it's more likely your period is on it's way. The bleeding you had earlier could have been a period. 



March 5, 2014 - 12:11pm
By March 4, 2014 - 7:58pm

Thank you finally someone has commented.

How can I rule out that its an infection from skin to skin contact?

I started bleeding 2 weeks after having my regular period and it lasted a whole week.

So there's a good chance I might be pregnant?

I haven't bled yet even though around this time I start to get my period and I've had slight cramps but that's it .

Can you please get to me as soon as possible? Please and Thank you I really appreciate youre feedback :)

March 4, 2014 - 7:58pm
By HERWriter Guide March 4, 2014 - 3:13pm

Hi Christine

Thanks for your post - have things gotten better? 

You may have gotten an infection from having sex - even if you used a condom. Skin to skin contact can cause infections. Have you ruled this out?

The bleeding does sound like a period - how long did it occur after you had your last period? 

Also, a pregnancy test will not be accurate two days after sex. It takes about 5 days to actually conceive after sex and then a test is accurate 10-14 days later. 

Will you update us?



March 4, 2014 - 3:13pm
By February 9, 2014 - 8:28am

Oh and I had bloating the day I went to the doctor!

February 9, 2014 - 8:28am

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