When a Woman Loses Desire: Sexual Dysfunction in Women
Dissatisfaction with sexual life is an issue for both men and women. Dissatisfaction for women may be due to a lack of interest in sex, inability to achieve orgasm, or pain during sex. Unfortunately, pinpointing the underlying issues and conditions that cause sexual dissatisfaction can be complicated. There may be both medical and psychological issues involved. In fact, often several issues interrelate to affect a woman’s sexual life.
Sexual Dysfunction Disorders
- Sexual desire disorder
- Sexual arousal disorder
- Orgasmic disorder
- Sexual pain disorder
Importantly, the underlying assumption of all these disorders is that the sexual problems are causing significant and ongoing personal distress to the woman, as well as to her partner.
Sexual Desire Disorder
Sexual desire disorder is a lack of interest in sex that causes persistent personal distress. The lack of interest may be not having sexual thoughts or fantasies, not desiring sexual activity, or not being receptive to a partner’s sexual activity. A similar but more rare condition is having a phobia to sex. . The causes of sexual desire disorder can vary from low hormone levels to chronic medical illnesses to social or psychological issues. Often several factors interact to create a situation of low sexual desire.
Sexual Arousal Disorder
Sexual arousal disorder is the persistent inability to become sexually excited both physically and mentally, and its causes may be either physical or psychological. Physical causes include low blood flow to the genitals or inadequate lubrication. Psychological causes may include
Orgasmic disorder occurs when a woman cannot achieve orgasm. Some women do not achieve orgasm with intercourse or with their partners, but are otherwise satisfied with their sexual activity. This disorder is only considered if a woman is severely bothered by not achieving orgasm. Causes may include lack of experience, history of sexual abuse, medications, low hormone levels, or psychological and social issues.
Sexual Pain Disorders
Sexual pain disorders include persistent genital pain with intercourse, called
Lack of lubrication is the most common cause of genital pain with intercourse. Women may have dyspareunia for a period of time after giving birth to a baby. Postmenopausal women may also experience pain with intercourse due to lowered hormone levels, which reduce the natural lubrication of the vagina. Infections and inflammation of the vagina or
A Combination of Factors
Some women may have more than one sexual disorder condition. In these cases, there are often many underlying causes that interrelate. For example, a postpartum woman may have pain with her first intercourse after delivery because of lack of lubrication. She may also lose interest in sex because she is tired from taking care of an infant. If her partner desires sexual contact more than she does, she may then develop some anxiety or lack of excitement during sexual activity.
Dealing With Sexual Dissatisfaction
Although it is difficult to discuss, it’s important to talk to your doctor about your concerns. There may be some simple evaluations available, like checking hormone levels, reviewing medication lists, or just providing reassurance about what is normal.
Choosing the appropriate treatments will depend on what the main issue bothering a woman is and can range from hormone medications to counseling. For problems that stem from psychological or social issues, individual or couples counseling is often helpful. For a lack of lubrication, over-the-counter lubricants can be effective. For postmenopausal women, estrogen creams can also help reduce pain with intercourse. Experts are encouraging more conversation, research, and the development of new treatments for women who are unhappy or unsatisfied with their sex lives. If you think you may experience sexual dysfunction, talk to your doctor to learn ways to regain satisfaction for both you and your partner.
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