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Using Food as a Coping Mechanism During the Holidays

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During the holidays, it can be easy to stress over getting everyone the right gifts and organizing family get-togethers, and the changing seasons can leave you in a funk. Food is one of the easiest methods to turn to when you’re feeling stressed, anxious and depressed, but it’s also unhealthy to cope with your mental health issues through food.

Jessica Setnick, the author of “The ADA Pocket Guide to Eating Disorders,” said in an email that she believes women do use food as a coping mechanism to handle mental health issues during the holidays.

“Some eat more, some eat less,” Setnick said. “The ones who eat more wish they were the ones who eat less, but actually eating less is just as stress-provoking. Not getting enough to eat increases anxiety and decreases ability to handle stress.”

Karen Koenig, a licensed clinical social worker and the author of “The Food and Feelings Workbook” and “The Rules of ‘Normal’ Eating,” said in an email that this unhealthy coping mechanism can intensify during the holidays, but it doesn’t necessarily start during the holidays.

“If women (or men) are in the habit of not experiencing their feelings or not managing them in healthy, effective ways, they will continue to do that during the holidays, only more so,” Koenig said.

Debi Silber, a health and wellness expert and author of "A Pocket Full of Mojo: 365 Proven Strategies To Create Your Ultimate Body, Mind, Image and Lifestyle," said that women try to do it all and be "superwoman" at this time of year, and this can create the stress and anxiety that leads to emotional eating.

"Many women use food as a way to soothe, calm, numb and relax from their problems and pain," Silber said. "Emotional eating is a self-soothing technique we've learned or taught ourselves and food is simply the drug of choice. It's easy, accessible and provides instant relief (although long term pain) as we flood ourselves with hormones/chemicals which help us relax."

If you haven’t yet gotten to the point of turning to food as a coping mechanism, and want to prevent that from happening, Setnick has some tips for you.

“Follow your normal eating schedule if it is a healthy one, i.e.

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EmpowHER Guest

Thanks Rheyanne,

As a borderline eating disorder sufferer, I can tell you the holidays are the worst. It's not just about the great food in your face - it's all about stress and diminished strength of will.

For those of you in a similar situation, check this out - it gives me a little strength during the season - and hopefully helps...

Holiday Stress and Eating Disorder Triggers

Happy Holidays all.

December 29, 2011 - 6:12pm
EmpowHER Guest

Try to control your food all the time to prevent gaining weight.I know is very frustrating to be overweight and in the same time is unhealthy. My husband was overweight for many years and he tried so many diets with no notable results. Finally he found a weight loss program that followed on TIPSTODIET.COM and had good results. He lost more than 40 lbs,and the most important thing is that he maintains his body weight even now after 1 year. He feels much better and I am so happy for him.
Everyone can do this!

December 22, 2011 - 3:41pm

Holidays are not the only time food can be used as a coping mechanism.  When diagnosed with a disease such as cancer one can do the same.  Either over eat or not eat at all.  The stress and worry can play big tricks on the body.  We have to treat our bodies as a very valuable machine.  When battling a disease or cancer, If you give it to much fuel (food or the wrong food) it will not operate properly and if we do not give it enough it will not function and not be able to repair what has to be repaired.

December 22, 2011 - 1:33pm
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