Depression can make going to work seem like climbing Mount Everest. At the end of the day, the only option that makes sense is to rush home so you can pass out in bed from emotional exhaustion.
Although women with severe depression may not even be able to get out of bed, there is hope for women who are still managing to make it to work. Besides going to a therapist regularly, seeking support from family and friends, and taking medication if needed, there are some other useful coping tips to consider.
1) Set boundaries at work and don’t volunteer to assist with too many projects, said Jessica Marchena, a licensed psychotherapist and co-owner of Heart Connection Center. Make sure not to take your work home with you, including avoiding answering any work-related emails at night.
2) If you’re uncomfortable at the thought of disclosing your depression to your boss, but your work performance is starting to suffer, you can just let your boss know that you’re working through some personal problems but can’t go into detail, said L. Marie Trotter, a professional certified coach and owner of Life Koach.
3) Identify the meaning in what you do at work, which may help you to decide if you want to continue working at your current job, according to Holly LaBarbera, a licensed marriage and family therapist.
If you find that your job is in line with your values and purpose, your talents are being used well, and you’re adding value to something in some way, it’s easier to feel satisfied and happy. However, if you don’t feel like your job serves the right purpose and your work feels meaningless, you may feel unhappy or it could even make depression worse.
When a job pays well but isn’t satisfying, this can lead to some cognitive dissonance, since there is an incentive to stay despite negative feelings, according to M.A. Haley, author of “Postpartum Depression / Postnatal Depression: The Basic Guide to Treatment and Support.”
4) It’s important to understand that your coping behaviors may be different from those of other women.