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When A Sister Has Breast Cancer

April 20, 2009 - 3:32pm 465 reads 4 comments

I’ll never forget how Connie’s voice cracked as she struggled to maintain control, her eyes bright with unshed tears, as she halting shared the news that her sister had breast cancer.

A diagnosis of breast cancer would be devastating to anyone. For Connie, the news of her sister’s cancer was particularly devastating. Connie comes from a large, close knit family of eight sisters and one brother. When I first met her ten years ago, she’d already lost one sister to breast cancer. Several years ago, she lost a second sister to breast cancer. A third sister is battling thyroid cancer. Molly makes the fourth sister to diagnosed with cancer and the third sister to have breast cancer.

How does a one cope when faced with such tragedy within one family? For Connie and her sisters, family and faith are everything. With their parents long since gone, the sisters have maintained a familial closeness that is remarkable. Holidays, birthdays, christenings, joys are all celebrated together. Likewise, when one family member is ill, the entire family closes rank and actively participates in the entire healing process. Meals are coordinated and delivered. Children are cared for by a supportive extended family.

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Anonymous

What an incredible family! I wish them all the best, and my prayers are with them.

Anonymous

Having lost my mother to cancer, I can understand what this family is going through; but I can't imagine what it must be like to face off against cancer time and time again. It is plain that their faith in God is where they draw their strength.

Anonymous

They probably don't think of themselves as being brave, but they are. I hope things continue to go well for them.

Mary Kyle

Thank you so much for your comments. I forwarded them on to the family. They are truly amazing and a wonderful inspiration. I cannot imagine walking their path and yet they do it with such grace and faith that you cannot help but be humbled and awed by it.

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