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Talking to Your Doctors And Understanding What They Say

June 3, 2009 - 10:57am 223 reads 1 comments

You may be thinking: Why don’t I understand everything my doctor says? She/he is so nice and I believe her/him, but I don’t always understand and I get embarrassed to ask more questions.

I know my doctor had told me something about the name of the medicine and when to take it, but I don’t understand how it will make me feel, and I don’t want the doctor to think I’m not paying attention or that I can’t remember.

Then yout doctor changes the subject and your not finished and then confusion comes in with a thunder and my emotions are racing. The story starts, “Oh, she’s busy, I must not have been paying attention. What’s wrong with me any way?”

You're fine. Did you know that for most people their blood pressure is at it’s highest when they are in the doctor’s office? "Why?" you may ask. Well, it’s because they are worried that it might be too high and they get anxious and when you get anxious your blood pressure goes up. So there you go. So, often when we become worried or a little afraid our mind gets lost in the worry and we lose track of our thought. Sometime, we get so much information that it takes time to sort it all out and this feels difficult because we live in an impatient world.

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Susan Cody

Thank you for this share.

I totally agree that confusion is born because we are computing various pieces of information and they are not adding up. We realize they are not adding up and become confused. If we were unintelligent, we wouldn't know that the information processed is having trouble making sense.

Great poem, I'll try to remember it the next time a doctor talks in Doctor, instead of English!

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