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Gay and committed? Census says you can check “married” box

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If you’re a gay or lesbian couple who consider yourselves spouses, the Census Bureau wants to count you that way, regardless of whether the state you live in permits same-sex marriage.

And it is urging transgender individuals to check off the sex they identify with, not necessarily the one they were born with.

That advice is part of a series of public-service videos released Monday by the U.S. Census Bureau, which is hoping to get a more accurate count of sexual minorities for the 2010 Census. Gay rights activists have also taken up the cause.

"What I tell folks in the bureau is that this is a powerful, important part of American society," Tim Olson, a Census Bureau assistant division chief helping to oversee the campaign, told the Associated Press.

"We have to reach out and engage this part of the population. Anything less than that is a failure," he said.

Just five states – Massachusetts, Connecticut, New Hampshire, Vermont and Iowa – and the District of Columbia have legalized gay marriage. But the Census says that the members of any couple in any state who consider themselves spouses are free to check the “husband” or “wife” box instead of the one saying “unmarried partner.”

From the Seattle Times:

“Advocates who have long sought a complete count of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community say this falls short but is still a partial breakthrough — one they say offers tacit acknowledgment of the very relationships the federal government legally denies.

"Even in the absence of federal recognition of our relationships, we have an opportunity to say on an official form that, 'Yes, we are married,' 'Yes, our relationships are every bit as equal to everyone else's,' " said Josh Friedes, executive director of Equal Rights Washington, a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT) advocacy group in Seattle.”

But the action is not without controversy. Conservative leaders see the effort as part of an ongoing effort to weaken or redefine marriage. From AP:

“Gary Randall, president of the Bellevue, Wash.-based Faith and Freedom Network, complained in a blog posting last month that the census "is leaving it to responders to characterize their own relationships, regardless of legal status."

"Will homosexual numbers be inflated by this 'you decide what you are' policy? Probably," Randall wrote. "This policy shift is another attempt to confuse the discussion about marriage by creating a problem of sorts, then providing a solution that advances the homosexual agenda of redefining marriage."

“Olson said he was aware of the criticisms, but defended the Census Bureau's policy of counting people according to how they identify themselves.

"We're treating the gay community the same as other segments of the population," he said. "There's a respect factor there. ... We've never asked people to show us their marriage licenses. We don't do that for straight people."

Unmarried couples who live together, whether same-sex or heterosexual, may also check the unmarried partner box on the census form.

Census officials say people are free to fill out their forms however they feel best reflects them — that the Census Bureau can no more tell people how to define their relationships than it can tell them what their race or gender is.

The Associated Press story:
http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5i1MOQt0DqjJyug18zATl_nHDokJwD9ET5CM02

The Seattle Times story:
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2011483128_lgbtcensus31m.html

The Nation blog on the “Queer the Census” movement:
http://www.thenation.com/blogs/thebeat/547686/_queer_the_census_

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All we need now is more than just the 'male' and 'female' boxes, as these pertain only to sex, and not to gender. We need the option to tick both, a genderqueer box, an 'other' box, and a 'none of the above'.

June 23, 2010 - 3:46am

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Why are they not counting gay people in general, including the single ones? Gayness is not just determined by who you marry (especially in the homophobic places) but by who you are...

April 6, 2010 - 3:41pm

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