December 1, 2008

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dragonfly

So far, I know three couples that were surprised -- to say the least -- when they found out they were pregnant. All of them said they were using the pill at the time. They seemed so overwhelmed with the children they had, I can't imagine they would skip doses. Now, two of the men from those couples have been snipped and we're no longer anticipating the phrase "Guess what?" To your point, Susan, I also know couples who double up on birth control just to be sure ...

I wonder what would effectively increase access to birth control for those women who are having trouble getting it ...

Maybe with Planned Parenthood opening more suburban area clinics, these stats might go down.

Kristin Davis

Optimist

My 7-year-old daughter is living proof that even taking the birth control pill religiously, without skipping a single dose, is not fireproof. It's not 100% effective.

I'm not lazy nor uneducated -- we just simply don't have a 100% effective form of birth control unless we choose sterilization.

My ex-husband and I were devastated by her pregnancy. We already had a 6-yr-old son and 5-yr-old daughter and felt our family was complete.

Of course, now, 7 years later, I can't even imagine this planet without our little Lara walking around on it. :) Some things just happen for a reason.

You're right, Optimist -- there is a stereotype here about women not paying attention or simply being "at fault" for having an unwanted pregnancy. But it does take two!!

Kristin Davis

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