i have problems reaching orgasm. i have tried everything. ive had to fight for any kind of help, by the way. doctors dont think women really have to have a satisfying sex life like a man does. they always want you to go to counseling. thats a cop out. are there any medicines being tested for women with decreased blood flow to the genital area for instance? it seems as if no one is interested. women have a higher rate of sexual dysfunction than men do and no considers us worth helping. i and alot of women like me are frustrated and it shows in our relationships. donna