Hello,
I am very new to a sexual relationship with a partner. I am 33 an have only been with him for a few months now and just recently begun having intercourse. I am inexperienced and we have only had sex a few times(6 times so far). Foreplay is great and seems to be most pleasurable so far. I am trying not to over analyze everything. I very concerned I am frigid, and unable to experience an orgasm with him. I have achieved a few on my own. Like one of your previous posters find water and the "happy shower hose" very pleasurable. What can I try besides the obvious things that have already been suggested like taking time and becoming mentally ready and open to the experience. My partner is not worried, he seems to think it will happen when its time for it to happen and I am aware I cannot force this type of things but I am very frustrated. Any advice you can give will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.