I am 19 and i'm a fairly sexual active person, I started my current boyfriend (aged 20) at the end of january. At first i thought he was just waiting for things to get more serious yet nothing has happened after 4+ months still nothing . When i say sex i am refering to intercourse, but he does not seem interested in any type of sexual contact at all, in the 4 months we had done oral twice, and that is the extend to our sexual aspect of the relationship. When i have tried to talk to him about this he simply brushes it off saying he takes things slow and the most recent answer is that he's scared, though he is not a virgin. I have tried to explain my needs in the relationship and he does not seem to care that sex is important to me and that its imporant part of a relationship. Is there a reason for this, or a way i could get him to open up to me, because my patience is running out. Is there any chance of things changing soon? Please help!