my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me hardley at all. and when we do he doesnt contribute in the work at all. we have had sex maybe 1 time in 6months. when i say something about it somehow it always turns into an arguement. when i was pregnant he said it was the belly. now he says its because he works so hard and he is tired. but his sex drive decreased before i was pregnant and before he got this new job. i tell him that i feel like its me, that maybe he doesnt find me attrative anymore. he always says its him. he says he doesnt understand why we have to have this converstion all the time. i just don't understand why the man i love doesn't want to be in bed with me. i tell him i cant wait forever and he just blows me off. i really don't think he is cheating on me. he is always at work or with me. i ask him what i can do. he says thiers is nothing to do that he is just to tired and not in the mood.