I wrote on this site before about how my menstrual cycle had been pretty messed up for basically my whole life that brought on a array of issues. I had been trying to have kids since I got married at 19 but it could never happen due to my cycles , never knowing how long it would be never knowing when it was gonna come but for the past year its been messed up to the point that it went on for 5 months my doctor tried birth control but it didn't make much of a difference. well my birthday just passed on the 16th and my birthday gift and the best one I could possibly hope for was that I am pregnant by 8 weeks.for the first time in my life. Scared yep Happy extremely so how do you keep yourself calm and not worry so much i'm trying very hard not to get stressed out because i don't want to give harm to the baby its just i don't know how not to worry especially since Ive waited so long for this.