So me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years, and well when we first got together it was everyday 2 or 3 times a day for awhile, and well now its maybe 1 or 2 times every 2 months... I dont get it.. I'm 21 and he's 25.. I live on my own so it has nothing to do with parents or roommates.. When he sleeps here which is not as often as I would like but when he does sleep over I'm the one that always initiates sex. And when we do have sex it lasts like 15 minutes tops.. but it never use to.. I know sex isnt the main point to a relationship but it does help. I always bring this topic up and he's always like i love having sex with you but he doesnt! Ok so for instance last night he slept over and nothing, no making out no touching NOTHING. So when he left this morning I texted him and asked him why he doesnt like having sex with me or why he doesnt like to even have some for play and he says oh i do, you'll see bla bla... well I said dont just say this stuff because I'm bringing it up and he says hes not.. Can someone please tell me why this is happening!!! Thanks so much!!