A year ago I discovered my husband had an addiction to pornography. Porn was not an aspect that I wanted in our relationship and we saw a marriage counselor to work through this problem. Our counseling sessions focused on communication rather than aspects of his addiction. While he is making great strides being porn-free I still have a lot of hurt over it. I feel like a lot of aspects about it are "in the dark" and did not ever come to the surface. I'm the kind of person who needs to face problems head on and with all the information. I feel that if I ask him to disclose ALL of the details about it then I will be able to move forward and not always wonder about the "if's" and unknowns. I think that it is important for my healing to know exactly what I'm dealing with. Do you think that it is wise to ask him to tell me all the details about his porn habits/addiction or would it be self-destructive?