I don't really know what to say about this but we only have sex whenever he wants it. Other times if i go anywhere near him even for a hug he says 'your always buggin me, what you want' like i'd be after sex of him, i don't think so. But when he wants it he has to have it and want take no for a answer. When i say put a condom on he goes'i will' but just puts it in anyway. I say moving him out of me 'put one on' and he goes 'ok' but just puts it back in a carries on. How can i make him wear one? And i don't enjoy sex, i can get turned on and wet but as soon as it's going to sex i go completly dry. When he's done he just gets up and goes watch tv or something. We never seem to talk anyway. I have never had great or even good sex. Is it always this boring, is there something wrong with me or when the right man comes along will he 'blow my mind' or is sex never like they show on films?