I suppose the answer to the other woman will suffice, because our situations are so similar, but I would really like to offer sympathy and validate her feelings of feeling repulsive when treated this way. I am in my late 40s, considered attractive and in good shape. I have a career, friends, one child (college) - so I am "normal." When dating for 6 months, my husband frequently commented on my appearance (in a good way) and wanted to be very intimate. Just 7 weeks after the ceremony...nothing. It's now been 2 years, and we've only had sexual relations 3 times. The last time was 14 months ago.
I am very dissatisfied and will probably get a divorce. When I bring it up, he says the relationship is fine the way it is - sexless. He refuses counseling. I've been married twice before and really do not want to go through the heartache of another split. This IS heartache, though. I am so disappointed. By the way, my husband is my age.
Is there anything else to be done????