Hi Empowher' I was looking back in my diary and I usually jot down when my fiance' and I have intercourse. t was a bit of a dry spell for about 3 months straight. then we had intercourse about two weeks ago. I have noticed that two weeks ago when we did had intercourse iwas a little bit happy, but now a little more sad. we get into arguements more often.. about small things. I sometimes hear him complain about me leaving things out on the counters and not putting stuff away. we have a soon to be a 11 month old son. Most of my time is takeing care of him to be worrying about small things. but when he complains i feel as if he's trying to be more like my father then partner. out sex is going down, we used to hae sex like all the time even during our pregnancy. and a little bit afterwards, but now not so much. I went to a doctor about depression but i felt a little silly asking him about this. but can depression get in the way with sex? should i send him singnals that i want to have sex. or wake him up when our son is sleeping so we can have sex. i read that haveing sex can release tention between partners who are going through alot of sex. We would have the house to our selves this week end. but if the sex is all that is missing from our lives and that would be whats wrong with me, maybe I don't have to be on derpression pills. what do you think?