My boyfriend and I have been living together for 12 months. He's previously told me that he has a low libido however I found that he is masturbating on a daily basis in secret. We only have sex about once ever 10 days but I'm always up for it, I love the intimacy we share. On ocassions I know that he uses porn stimulants to get there as well. He's hard to talk to so I don't know whether to talk to him about it or not, it hurts me so much because I don't feel like he's 'into' me. What can I do to make him want me more and masturbate less???, please help.