im going through kind of the same thing i have been with my boy friend for a year and a half and we just had our first child i gained alot of weight w the pregnancy, but he lost complete interest in me when i was preg i tried to have sex but he said it was weird bc i was pregnant, then i had the baby and he still didnt want to because he didnt want to use condoms he told me once i got on my birth control things wuld change, they didnt he still dnt want to have sex and wen we would have sex he would just lay there or want a blow job, i would offer diff things buy he advised he is comfortable and dnt want to really do much, it got to the point i was begging and ending up crying, he has not touched me down there for over a year and dnt want to even touch my boobs basically he wants to get off and be done, i told him i have needs to. then recently i sat down w him to tlk about it, he said its bc i have gained weight and there is times ill eat things i shouldnt, he said im not confident anymore, but he still loves me! got any suggestions? i dnt think this is love, when you love some one you love them for them not just wat they look like/
i have considered leaving him but i really love him and i have never felt the way i feel for him for anyone else