hi, I'm sorry this is an embarrassing question for me but i feel the need to get it out there, because it sucks! i have no other way of knowing or having the bit chance of knowing. so i have sexual desires and needs just like any other woman, Ive been sexually active with two men total , and neither of them can get me to climax. at first i thought it was my ex boyfriend, just being selfish and not caring about my needs just his, but now that im with my husband its just the same, i wont climax , not oral not penetration. i don't know whats wrong, but its very stressing for my partner and for me! he gets off just fine , twice three time sometimes four, because that's how long he tries to get me, but i just don't!? if you have any advice or any answers to my HUGE problem i would highhly appreciate it! thank you.