Ok its been about a year that my boyfriend and I haven't been intimate. But I have to admit that in some way its my fault. Ok about a year and 1/2 ago we were playing around, it turned into 4 play and soon after into sex but the sex was for about 5-7 mins!!! Rite after we were done I told him that why he couldn't last much longer I didn't even get the chance to even start he was just in and out. I have to admit I did sound cruel but hey I was extremely horny, mad and frustrated. After that we had sex in August of last year and since August until today July 13, 2010 we haven't been intimate. I have talked to him and rite now he's under a lot of stress. He says that he's so stressed out that he doesn't think about sex and that what I had said to him about a year ago also affected him mentally. I don't. know what to do anymore... I'm also stressing out too cuz everything else in our relationship is good we just don't have sex anymore... This November it will be 3 years together n I don't want to loose him. What do I do???