I have a question for anyone who thinks they have good advice I would love to hear!SIDS-an unexplained sudden death of an infant So if that is the definition how can an almost 9 month old baby who was sick for a week leading up to death be titled this?My daughter was sick with symptoms that appeared to be a virus of some kind for a week over this course of this week she seen her family doctor 3 times he said she might have rota-virus but he never tested her for it he also explained she had an ear infection.So me an her dad did everything we were told to do for her,fluids an such also she was put on antibiotic for ear.It got to the weekend an she appeared to be getting worse on this sunday of this week she looked out of it an stopped peeing an had white stuff around her mouth she was clearly dehydrated,clearly I could tell I'm not a doctor but the signs were obvious no peeing for 2 days so I called her doctor at home an he said he would fax a letter to hosp to start an iv an admit her so we took her an they took blood work an said no dehydration an sent her home I was confused an just listened to er doctor because hes the doctor not me.The next day I layed my daughter down for a nap because she looked so tired an sick like she neeeded rest,well I went back to her an found her not breathing an purple which is very traumatizing we rushed to hospital an they bagged her meaning recussitated her she had to be flown to a better hosp where she started improving an stayed overnight hooked up to everything u can imagine she seemed to be doing better but she never opened her eyes because she lost alot of oxygen to brain I prayed over her an sang to her all night an next morning her heart rate increased an she was given shots to slow her heart down which actually killed her right on the spot.I am so pissed off an angry I feel like this isn't right an someone messed up an now I live wondering what really happened,I just need answers I am so heartbroken an lost with out her does any one on here have any clue or see where this all went wrong?sincerely a grieving mother