My b/f and i have been together for 1 year and a half. We live together and he has three kids. They are here half time. He is going through some medical problems right now and has been really depressed for the past few months and in the last 6 months we have only had sex twice. He hasnt touched me in almost four months now. That is no fore play or anything. I am 26 years old and he is 40. He just wants to sleep all the time and i take care of the kids and house. I dont know what to do. I am about to lose my mind. I am at the point i am not even having periods. I dont have insurance to see a doctor. I am at my wits end i just want to be touched and to know that i am loved. I have had serious talks with him about it and he tells me i am selfish and that he just needs a little more time thats all. Or he says he will start to try. But he hasnt done anything. I would never leave him. Even though i know thats what some people would tell me to do. I love him soo much i just want to fix the situation. Please help me tell me what i can do! I am desperate and going out of my mind. It is actually starting to affect my daily life. I cant help but think about it almost all day please help me.