Before me and my boyfriend became official, we had sex frequently. Now that we have been together for almost a year, we don't....I joke around saying how he needs to have more sex with me and he replied that you should be conservative with your girlfriend. He loves having sex with me but only has sex with me about once maybe twice a week. I am so frustrated about this because I have never had this problem in the past with other men as they were all over me. He masturbates pretty much everyday and I jokingly mentioned he would rather jack off then have sex with me. He told me that he didn't want to use me to just relieve himself that he rather have sex with me because he wants me. I am just so annoyed at this situation because I mention it a lot and he still doesn't have sex with me that often. I feel compelled to seek sexual gratification elsewhere. I even told him that I was going to cheat on him if he didn't start having sex with me but I know he really did not believe me. I don't know what to do or what's wrong.