My husband and I have been together for almost 9 years, married for almost 5 of those years. The past few years have been stressful, but we have made it through. Now, we hardly ever talk, sex is nonexistent, maybe 2-3 times a month, and that is a good month. I know he loves me. I think he still loves me. When he is at home, he watches tv, or is on the computer. I have stopped being on my computer as much, thinking it would help us talk. He doesn't really interact with myself or our 3 children like he use to. He sleeps when he is home, and that is about it. He interacts with his friends. He use to tell me everything, what was going on and with who. Now I have to ask, and he just says nothing. I don't want to come right out and ask him what is going on, b/c it will get twisted on me. I don't know what to do.