its been about five months since i found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with a good mutual friend that we both work with. i was heart broken, confused, and just didnt know what to do....i was in shock. i couldnt believe that would happen to me especially with someone i considered a good friend. a friend of mine had told me, she told me the whole story and that it happened well over a year ago when me and him were just a recent couple. so i stopped talking to the girl and i confronted my bf about it. he wanted to deny it first because he didnt think i knew the whole story but once i told him i couldnt do this anymore he decided to come clean. he said he wasnt even sure when it happened that it happened so long ago and how sorry he was that it was a mistake. they were both out with ppl from work and had one too many drinks. everyone ended up at her house by the end of the night and thats when it happened. i love him so much that i believed everything he told me that he would never ever do it again that he loves me and doesnt know what he would do without me. so i stayed(we have been living together for almost two years now). now i have no relationship with the girl. it was unbelievably hard for me since we all worked together to try and get over it. but who could blame me. i was still so angry inside not only that it happened but that it took me so long to find out. so god answered my prayers recently and she got fired from my work. i couldnt be happier. but ever since i found out about everything my bf said that they were still good friends and they talked here and there while at work. i told him that they were no longer to go out together no matter if it is with a group or not. and he agreed. i figured asking him to quit talking to her all together would make work kind of awkward so i kept my mouth shut and tried not to let it bother me as bad as it did. so my question now is do you think that after all ive been put through...the humiliation and the heart ache, it would be much to ask for that he doesnt speak to her AT ALL? since we never see her or hear from her anymore because of her getting fired. i feel that its about respect. that he should respect my feelings and do as i ask if he truely wants to be with me. i feel like they lost the right to be friends that night when they decided to do whatever they did. is this too much to ask for? or is it just me being insecure? i want to bring it up but dont know how he will react...