Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. For the first year and a half we never had sex. We had intense foreplay and that's all, but we did this at least 2-3 times a week. A few months ago we had sex for the first time. We did it like 3 times that day and every since then we have stopped (because of him) and we only do it once or twice a month. I ask him about it and he says it's great and it's not me, however I can't help but think it is. He says he doesn't want to have a lot of sex because he doesn't want to get sick of me and relationships aren't only about having sex all the time. He wants to do it only once in a while. He loves me, I know that. I'm not saying that I NEED to have sex with him all the time, I just thought men liked sex. I feel like something is wrong. Is it me? Or is this just how relationships are?