my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little under two years, when we first started going out, he was the sweetest thing, for the first 7 or 8 months everything was fine, we didnt fight, and we saw each other everyday, after the 8th month he went on a weekend away with his sister to another state, when he came back everything was different, he wanted more time with his mates, and less time with me, i didnt have a problem with that, until he started spending more time with them then with me, the most i spend time with him in a week is maybe 2 hours, i know i should be greatful for the time spent, but i cant help but think, why doesnt he want to see me more, especially when he has the time for it. After a while, he started hiding his phone from me, he is so protective over it, the problem is, that we share a phone plan, so he can check up on who ive been calling or texting, he accused me of cheating, just because i was texting them. so now he wants me to delete my facebook, change numbers, just so i wont have contact with my guy friends, i love my boyfriend, but sometimes it just gets to hard to deal with, i dont know what to do, i want to be with him, but i dont know, how to get through to him about his behaviour.