before. I do feel attracted to my husband and so does he, but the very thought of sex cringes me and I refrain from indulging myself. I did try using lubrication jelly too but it didnt help. The problem is I dont get aroused even after prolonged foreplay. Besides, my husband ( 38 years) also has started to lose interest in sex- guess because of my attitude. All this frustrates and depresses me as I feel we are missing out on sexual opportunities when we are completely entitled to our share of happiness. What could be the problem and how can I get back and share the same level of intimacy as before.