me and my boyfriend have been together for four years and we have never had sex. im still a virgin but i know im ready to have sex. but he doesnt seem to want too. ive basically thrown myself at him. ive told him i have wanted too multiple times but he doesnt seem interested. i feel like im inadequate as a woman. i odnt know what to do. its a little embarassing to throw yourself at your boyfriend and he doesnt even want to. im at my wits end can someone please help!