I'm 21 years old and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together nearly 2 and a half years and have just moved in with my parents after University has finished.
We haven't had sex now for a month. I'm quite a sexual person, and so is he, at the start of our relationship we had sex nearly every day. As I started staying at his more often the sex reduced a bit, as we were more comfortable just being together, without the sex. We have both been used to having a few weeks apart at summer and things, and then when we got back the sex would be amazing, but now we never do it and it's making me upset.
I try and start something, but he brushes it off saying he doesn't feel like it. We have moved back with my parents so I understand it can be hard because we have to be quiet and things, but they have been away on holiday and we have had the house to ourselves and the situation still hasn't changed - he asked for oral sex the other day and I gave it to him thinking that it would start something, but I got nothing in return.
We have both just started full time jobs so maybe he is stressed about this. I have tried to be sexy for him, but I just feel disgusting as my own boyfriend doesn't even want to have sex with me. I haven't put on weight or anything - I'm a lot smaller than I was about a year ago. He keeps saying he has put on weight, and I guess he has slightly but he's never been small and it doesn't bother me, I still find him perfect for me.
Another thing that has worried me is the fact that I have been on his history on his computer and he goes on this one girls photos a lot! She does modelling (who doesn't on facebook...ha) and there are photos of her with her bra and knickers on, and her cleavage out, and she's very skinny, blonde and big boobed. Something I'm not! I even saw one day that he went on her profile, then went on porn, then back to her profile. It is always when I'm out of the house for a reason.
I know I shouldn't be snooping but I was just scared that he was getting his pleasure somewhere else, because he's certainly not getting it from me (not that I don't want to!). Him going on porn sometimes doesn't bother me, but it does when we aren't even having sex and he's mixing it with real people that he used to go to school with!
What am I meant to do? Does he just not love me anymore? He says he does and he's so sweet and does nice things for me, and he's made this big commitment of moving in with me and my parents and says he wants us to get a flat, but I am just worried and just don't know anymore.