last year i broke up with my partner..we had been together 16 years...in 2004 she was diagnosed with cancer...this is what she told me,she went for treatment...i was so busy working i never went to doctors with her..she lost her hair,lost her eyebrows...were a bandana for 3 years...it devasted me when she was sick..everyone prayed for her,sent cards,gifts......i loved her so much,she wrote a will,made videos of her journey through cancer..it broke my heart..we even picked a place for her to be buried if she died...last week i found out the truth..she never had cancer,i feel sick the person i loved and honoured would do that to me.....when we broke up last year she had a breakdown,she has taken over 25 overdoes,had 15 admissions to hospital for self harm injuries,been admitted 15 times to psychiatric hospital..was diagnosed with a personality disorder....she tells lies constantly,stories that are ridiculous but i believe her...,she has a way of manipulating people,she is very childlike,in the 16 yrs we were together she never worked,any job she did get she lost very quickly...she took alot of money from me and lied to pretend she never took it........she lies to me,family,friends,makes no difference who you are.....she had no whee to live when we broke up so she was homeless and living in a bed and breakfast for 3 months,been in and out of the hospital ..her longest stay was 2 months in the phyciatric hospital....i rented her a flat and am paying the rent the past 6 months ..i feel so guilty and sad seeing her life where it is now...i know i have enabled her to be dependant on me and now she doesnt know how to manage......but i need to know whey she lied about her cancer,her doctors wont tell me anything....they say i have no rights now.......is she a sociapath....???? im so worried .....i dont know what to believe anymore ,was my 16 years a lie....was i used.....what a mug....i loved her....i thought she loved me......what should i do now....? to help myself and her...????