My husband told me he finds my private area repulsive. I was and still am speechless (as well as being deeply hurt). Needless to say this hasn't left my mind since he said it. My confidence is low enough what with eczema, vitaligo, small boobs etc but to now have this added to the list of abnormalities just makes me want to vanish.
Our sex life has gone down hill. I hurt with penetration sometimes and I don't turn him on enough for him to stay hard. In the last couple of weeks I've managed to get him to climax twice and that was only because he closed his eyes and started thinking of something / someone else. I am beginning to believe that he is attracted or has something with someone at work. He used to be mad about me, now I physically repulse him and he can't even look at me if I start to do things to him.
He cannot stand touching me down he desperately washes my fluid from his hands, then complaining about cramp, and has only ever been down there with his mouth 3 times in 20 months.
I am now wondering whether labiaplasty is an option or should resign myself to the fact he doesn't want any type of sex with me, and I will have a sexless life.
Help please, if anybody else has a similar experience. Does anybody know if any labia surgeries are available on the nhs?