Hi, my ex-boyfriend just got married this weekend. I was not present at his wedding but am deeply struggling with the loss. Everyone keeps on telling me I did the right thing by ending the relationship (and it was the right thing to do) but I really made the decision by popular choice (not wanting it myself). I was deleting everything of his and removing him from my life completely. We had had a strong relationship of over four years and it had taken less than one misunderstanding for him to suddenly move to the person he is married to. I had imagined that he would have fought for our relationship but he didnt. Please help! I am trying my best to think positively of all of this but sometimes I do get troubled thoughts that I dont want to think of. The relationship I was in after this one also did not last long due to other complications. I am trying my best to do whatever I can to move on but its making it much harder. Please help and suggest me the best ways I can accelerate the healing process. The last time such a painful breakup had happened, I had done charity :) but it seems those opportunities are no longer available because I have a full time job now. Please suggest ways for me to stop thinking about our memories and help me get over the pain!