I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 years and we were long distance for the first four years so when we saw each other we were inseparable but then I moved in with him about 3 year ago, at first, of course everything was great. However, now we have sex but not a lot, I think it's been about 3wks to a month since the last time. In the beginning of the relationship I had a very very low sex drive, I never really wanted to do it and he would ALWAYS want to and always initiate. However, at that time I was very very shy and didn't have much experience. Now my drive is a lot higher and I want to explore things but it just seems that he's uninterested. I don't think he is cheating on me (as far as physically) but I really don't know. He works overnight, sleeps all day and doesn't really want to go out either and have any fun. I'm getting very frustrated and aggravated with him, b/c I'm only 24 years old and all I do is sit in the house and watch him sleep. I have tried to initiate oral sex with him and he always responds but when I try to go further idk what happens, he even stopped me one time w/ a hard d*ck so ever since then I said I will never initiate sex with him again...so now I fear that we never will except maybe once every 2 months. When I ask him why he says he doesn't want us to get tired of it...which is BS (I Think) b/c I said well we need to try new things and he really didn't say much. I've considered cheating on him & ALMOST DID ONCE BUT DIDN'T GO THROUGH WITH IT but that just shows you how unhappy and not satisfied I am in this relationship. I need help! Oh yea, he's about 28 years old and he's been around the block, he's had over 50+ partners more or less and i've had about 2 before him...