It has been over a year since my husband found out he has oral herpes. He gets the cold sores about once every other month, less lately. He was completely freaked out by the diagnosis, and I understood, so I let him take his time. He will not share any food with us (I can't even eat out of the same bowl with a different spoon) or drink or anything. I tried to be understanding at first, figuring he would calm down a little after some time passed. But he says he is terrified that our toddler will get it and he won't take any risks at all. I'm really starting to feel the impact of no kissing, and needless to say it has impacted out sex life. What should I do?