My boyfriend went to a friends party they had strippers and he got a lap dance with one of the girls and she was naked. He had basketball shorts and boxers on and he said she grabed his penis with her vagina through his pants and after some more grinding his pants were soaking wet, not from him but from her. He said he didn't have sex with her and that his penis never came out of his pants. He says he immediately got up and stopped her when he felt his pants wet. This party was a few months ago and I just recently found out about this only because he was having pain in his testicles and when he went to the doctor they told him he had epididymitis. I had recently been feeling like I had a uti and have a doctors appointment tomorrow. My question is is there any possible way all this is from the so called dance he got from that stripper? Can you get an STD through your basketball shorts from her body fluids soaking your pants or would there have had to be actual sex or body to body contact?