I'm 20 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We are very much in love and haven't had any problems sexual before. But now we only do it once a month if that. Its not him its me. I'm never really in the mood no matter how much he tries. And the last few times I wanted to but I was dry down there. I've been thru alot within the last year and I also have, I'm not sure how you spell it so I'm going to spell it how it sounds, in-do-meet-tree-o-s. My boyfriend know about all this. We talk about it all the time. He says he understands. But I know he wants to make love and so do I but I just don't feel like it. I don't have any insurance or the the extra money to go see a doctor about any of this. But I feel like its putting a strain on my relationship with my boyfriend. I want it to be like it was or even better. Please help.