Me , && my boyfriend give each other oral sex. Because I'm too afraid of having actual intercourse. I'm not trying to get pregnant, && I'm very paranoid about things. But anyways ... We give each other oral sex. I give him oral w/ a condom on to make sure nothing gets on me in the process of giving him oral. Once I'm done giving him oral we head to the bathroom, && he takes the condom off slowly..&& then throws it away. Then he washes his hands w/ soap && water as a precaution. To make sure that nothing could have possibly got on his hands , even though his hands looked dry , && he wore a condom. Then we headed back to the room , && he gave me oral. He tried putting his finger in my a couple times ... But stopped because I said I didn't like it. But his hands still were washed before he touched me. But anyways...then when he is done doing Me... I go pee && stuff . Am I safe from pregnancy knowing that I did all these things. I'm a very paranoid girl .. && I need advice. Plus, I'm 17 && my starting period dates were June 24, July 23rd, Aug 21st, Sept. 19th, && Oct. 15th which was my last start period. I thought my period would have been here today, but I guess I am a little irregular ...should I be worried that it's not here yet? Or just wait? Is it normal for my period to all of a sudden come on a different day? I'm scared. Please help me!