I have recently started to get hot flashes while sleeping and its waking me up at night plus I am getting very weepy and crying and missing my children being young(they are teens)I am feeling anxious and feelings of loss when I have never suffered from depression. Now it is only just started last week and lasted just three days but that three days was hell on earth! I am 54 so I know aim late at this my doc said this process is on late end with me unsure why but please I need help no one i know seems to want to talk about it!