So ive been with him for 5 months and sdx has always been the same. Satisfying but not as rough and kinky as I want. He claims to be a dominant but ive seen no proof he works a lot. But if he has time to do errands after work he should have the energy for me. What to I do to get him to tie me up or spanking me or something? Its frustrating I talk to him about it. He says he will try but when it comes time. It downy happen:(